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Should people worry about what others think of them?

Axis: no, others notice far less than we fear ... yes, reputation and others' views matter

John

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2013-02-12 new John: none of the 6,000 Nerdfighters he met had anything to be embarrassed about; he holds up Sarah's insight that everyone is too busy thinking about themselves to think about you, which he is still trying to internalize. Talking to the President 00:02:28

Hank

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2012-11-16 new Hank says everyone fears judgment, but hiding from it by being bland, not trying or never sharing is a terrible way to live; the fear never goes away, you get more comfortable in it. We're all Scared 00:02:12